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3.22 Avoid being overworked

By Dr. WANG Ming-min


Some people are always running around, essentially trapped in the trap of "busy but achieving little"—seemingly busy but with little to show for it. There are multiple underlying reasons for this state.


(1) Vague goals and misaligned values. The lack of clear goals is the primary reason for busywork. When a person is not clear about "why he or she is doing this", he or she will be like a rudderless ship sailing aimlessly at sea, and any wind will be a headwind. Many people equate "action" with "progress", mistakenly believing that as long as the body is moving, it is moving towards success. As a result, they fall into the vicious cycle of using tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness.


Failing to prioritize is also a common problem. Many people don't plan ahead and try to do everything at once, turning themselves into "firefighters" constantly on the move, becoming slaves to urgent and trivial matters, while the most important tasks are left unfinished. This work style is extremely inefficient, yet creates a false impression of being "busy."


(2) Driven by psychological anxiety and a lack of boundaries. Anxiety when idle is a common mindset in modern society. Like a spinning top accustomed to high-speed rotation, stopping brings anxiety, fear, and emptiness. This "addiction to busyness" prevents true rest, even on holidays. A lack of boundaries is equally detrimental. Many people reply to WeChat messages instantly, attend impromptu meetings on call, and never refuse requests for help from colleagues, resulting in their core work being fragmented. This "good guy" mentality allows time to be consumed by trivial matters, leaving no time for truly important work.


(3)Information Overload and the Efficiency Trap. Information overload is a common dilemma for modern professionals. We have to deal with a large number of emails, meetings, and messages every day, which severely consumes our brain bandwidth. Multitasking seems efficient, but it is actually an efficiency killer. When replying to emails, making phone calls, and writing documents at the same time, the brain needs to switch between working modes repeatedly, and the train of thought is constantly interrupted, which greatly reduces work efficiency. Focusing on doing one thing is far more efficient than handling multiple things at the same time.


How to escape the constant rush of life?


(1)To break free from the vicious cycle of aimless busyness, it is necessary to establish a clear goal system and a scientific prioritization. Tools to improve focus, such as the Pomodoro Technique, can also be used. After every 25 minutes of focused work, take a 5-minute break; after four cycles, take a 15-20 minute break. This method effectively reduces distractions, allowing you to unleash highly efficient focus in a short period.


(2)Learning to say no is equally important. When faced with a last-minute request, ask yourself two questions: "Is this something I absolutely have to do?" "Does it have to be done today?" If both are no, then delegate or postpone it. Use the phrase "thank you + reason + alternative" to avoid damaging relationships while maintaining your work rhythm.


(3)Daily review is the guarantee of continuous optimization. Spend 5 minutes before leaving get off work each day to review: What tasks were completed today? Where was time wasted? Record the problems and adjust the methods accordingly to avoid repeating the same mistakes.


True efficiency isn't about racing against time, but about making time work for you. By setting clear goals, prioritizing tasks, focusing on execution, and regularly reviewing your progress, you can break free from the vicious cycle of constant running around and achieve a work-life balance.